Veteran Nollywood actor Chiwetalu Agu has strongly emphasized that women should focus on achieving self-development and independence before considering marriage. He advocates for women to be mentally, physically, spiritually, and financially stable prior to tying the knot, stressing that marriage should complement a woman's life, not define or complete her. Agu's message encourages women to establish their own identity, career, or business as a means to avoid vulnerability in situations such as divorce, widowhood, or conflicts with in-laws.

Women should see marriage as a beautiful addition rather than a necessity for self-worth or fulfillment.

It is important to build oneself upโ€”having a job, business, or skillโ€”so as to avoid starting life from scratch if circumstances change, like divorce or the death of a spouse.

Relying solely on a partner for emotional or financial support makes women vulnerable, especially in societies where widows, divorced women, or single mothers face societal challenges.

Agu warns against settling for less due to societal pressures and emphasizes that personal growth and independence are crucial for a stable future.